My Dog ​Is Jealous. What To Do?

As we know, dogs have feelings and emotions just like people do. One of those feelings is jealousy, which can be towards other pets or even towards humans, such as when we adopt a new dog or a baby arrives at the home.

Although it may seem funny, jealousy arising from competition between household members leads to serious behavior problems. Therefore, it is important that you know how to act in time to avoid this situation, are the tips that we give you below.

Is jealousy of a dog a problem?

Having more than one dog can be a great idea to ensure that your veteran dog is not left alone during your absences. However, the arrival of a new member can become a problem for your puppy if he cannot understand the division of your attentions.

Your dog may consider that the new dog is breaking the bond between him and his human and absorbing the pampering and attention that previously only belonged to him. This competition can occur with any being that stands between the dog-owner relationship.

If this happens and measures are not taken to prevent jealousy from continuing over time, we will be putting the health of the dogs or even the humans who deal with this dog at risk.

Hatred, aggressiveness and fights will be one of the first consequences that we can observe in these dogs. In addition, we must not forget the feeling of sadness, abandonment, disappointment and depression that, even being unjustified, our jealous dog will feel.

How does jealousy originate?

As in humans, canine jealousy can appear suddenly after the arrival of a new member of the “pack” . The dog will not understand why he must share his love with another individual and this will make him jealous.

However, in addition to specific circumstances, some dogs are more prone to jealousy than others. Small breed dogs tend to be possessive and territorial with their owners and objects. In contrast, large dogs tend to be more social and open.

This does not mean that you can get rid of jealousy if you have a Golden Retriever, for example. Education is another key point on this issue. If you train your dog as “the baby of the house” and one day another baby arrives, be it real or pet, your dog will feel threatened and abandoned.

dog looking upset

Symptoms of jealousy in a dog

A jealous dog will begin to show changes in his mood and character . His desire to play with you diminishes, he growls when the member he is jealous of approaches, is downcast and depressed, and often withdraws himself.

In addition to these first signs, you can alert yourself that your dog is jealous if he shows the following symptoms :

  • Bark when you approach the other member
  • Urinate indoors as a wake-up call and to mark their territory
  • He becomes possessive and does not separate from you
  • Shows his teeth and is aggressive towards the animal or person who bothers him
  • Smash toys and / or their bed to get your attention
  • Returns to its usual character after the absence of that member
  • Shows changes in your appetite
  • Hides
  • Whining for no apparent reason

2 dogs and a cat in bed

Types of jealousy in dogs

There are two clearly differentiated types of jealousy in dogs. On the one hand, sexual jealousy , carried out mainly between males for competitiveness and mating. On the other hand, the jealousy produced by lack of attention or protagonism, the type of jealousy that we deal with today.

Within the jealousy of the second type, the combinations in which insecurities between members can occur are varied, among the most common, the dog may be jealous of:

  • Another dog or pet
  • Child or baby
  • The owner’s partner

How to avoid jealousy?

Whether your intention is to prevent jealousy in your dog, or if you are looking for a solution after the arrival of these, below, we offer you some key tips that you can carry out to make your dog calm, friendly and sociable .

Previous education

  1. The dog is not a baby: do not treat your puppy as if it were a baby, because, although for you it is your baby, this can confuse him in the long run and make him possessive towards you.
  2. Set rules: don’t let your dog do whatever he wants. Set limits and teach your dog basic obedience commands.
  3. Reinforce their appropriate behaviors positively.
  4. Scold him if necessary: do not pamper him excessively, if he does something wrong, let him know.
  5. Remember that socialization with other dogs and people is vital to ensure that our dog is comfortable with the presence of other individuals.

2 dogs in a box

Behavior after the arrival of the new member

Jealousy between pets

  1. Introduce the new member in a friendly manner. Give them time to smell , connect, establish hierarchies and share moments of fun. Avoid leaving them alone for the first few days.
  2. Also, reserve a space and special belongings for each animal, such as beds, toys and feeders. At the beginning it is better to avoid sharing things …
  3. Try not to stop paying the same attention that you previously offered to your dog, even if the other member is a puppy. Pet both animals the same time .
  4. Reward the right behaviors with rewards when they get together without showing any discrepancies.
  5. Avoid giving affection to the dog if he is being aggressive towards the other member, as the dog would understand that he is being rewarded for that attitude.
  6. Increase the doses of affection to the jealous dog when it approaches or is near the other individual. In this way, the dog will associate the presence of other pets or people with increased pampering or other positive behaviors.
  7. Scold your dog when he shows bad behavior, such as growling at the other individual. A firm “No” can serve as a wake-up call. Of course, always avoid physical punishment .
  8. Similarly, don’t let him do whatever he wants just because he’s jealous. Maintain your authority and enforce the rules.
  9. Always remember to positively reinforce his behavior when he behaves well in front of the other member of whom he is jealous.

In the case of jealousy between pets, remember that the most important thing is that you do not show differences between both members. Dogs realize everything and will appreciate the change in no time. Have patience and empathy with your puppy and help him understand that you have love for both of you.

Jealousy over the arrival of a baby

  1. In the event that a baby is coming home, habituate it to its arrival even before the baby arrives . Take advantage of the months before to allow the dog to get close to the pregnant woman’s belly, smell the baby’s belongings, etc.
  2. Once the baby is born, present it carefully and lovingly so that he can smell it under your supervision.
  3. Although the dog must get used to the new situation and the hierarchy of the home, do not stop paying attention to the dog , even if you no longer have so much time.
  4. Make sure that the time you spend with the dog is of “quality”. That is, in addition to time for their basic needs, reserve a space to play , pamper them or do what they like the most and show them how much you still love them.
  5. Follow steps 5 to 9 in the “Jealousy between pets” section.

It is important to note that, if your dog has already reached the point of being aggressive or you have not been able to stop his jealousy after these steps, you should consult your veterinarian or ethologist to solve this problem as soon as possible.

Mehul D

I love pets especially dogs and cats. I have created this website to spread useful information about pets and to help people to take care of their pets in a better way.